Success Tips
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That’s exactly what a successful genteleman recently told me when we were discussing about careers and job performance in general. What a great advice, don’t you think? But although it makes absolute sense I am not sure we are all following it wisely. We instead try to have as many mentors, supporters, followers, fans and friends as possible in a way to probably feel more confident through our large network or popularity. The hypothesis we make is: ‘The more people I know the more I can rely on getting them recognizing and support my outstanding work.’
Well there is a great flaw into that hypothesis. Yes, there are a lot more opportunities within a larger network, but is it quantity or quality that counts more in this case? Think of this for a minute. How many people have given you a really great push in your career, were really empathetic in helping you for a personal matter or offered you some sort of invaluable advice that changed your life. It shouldn’t be that many, I assume. And I also hope that you have just realized that indeed there a few people among all those mentors, supporters, followers, fans or friends of yours that you should be treating a bit differently.
Think of them as your ‘life sponsors’; the people who will actually have an impact in these aspects of life they really matter; whether is that senior manager who always help you get that promotion, the professor who keeps guiding and advising you beyond college or even the beloved one you have chosen to partner in life. So, make sure you put that extra effort required to always make them feel there was a good reason for which you deserved their attention and support. And of course never forget this is a take-and-give game…

I don’t mind introducing myself, but I think it is enough for me to say that I am a business professional sharing similar interests with Kyriakos, who was kind enough to allow me publishing my thoughts and experiences on Business Epigram. Despite the fact that I am coming from a different and more rigid business realm, Kyriakos keeps my entrepreneurship spirit motivated and hungry as Steve (Jobs) suggested we should do.